****News Flash*****


Wearing JEANS will be ALLOWED!


Diego Dave, the Organizer

The 40+



24 hour EVENT hotline (760) S-I-N-G-L-E-S

Ages approx. 38 to 58-ish...a few younger and a few older attend, but all are welcome

"Coming to one of our parties is probably the best decision that you could make to improve your social life in a hurry!"



 If it is your first time coming to a 40+ party  or if you bring a new person, just bring this page..... (1 page for each of you) and you both  will receive...

 a $5 bill for use at the bar!

*Yes, we really  do need a printout!  Sorry , but  showing your phone will not qualify for this promotion!

(must be paying guests)


~ current PARTY SCHEDULE ~



due to remodeling at the Doubletree.  Sorry!



is San Diego's
& It's Really Catching on!
7-11pm   in the nightclub of

5302 Napa St at Morena Blvd, SD

Just Across from Old Town & I-8 on Morena Blvd at Napa St



                   Due to the very fun and casual  nature at Tio Leo's, we have decided to "relax" the dress code, so that



Join the crowd...

~WEDNESDAYS at Tio Leo's have been a huge success!

~ Up to 100 - 150 party-going singles from all over San Diego  & some from groups like 
Match.com, Meetup, POF,  The Baby Boomers and more!
~Grand Door Prizes:
Dinner for 2 at Tio Leo's
& an
  ANDROID Jelly Bean 7.0" WiFi Tablet!
(no purchase necessary.  Not  necessasarily a Samsung)

You'll see

Our very popular DJ with the best dance mixes from Rock to Romantic, and Latin to Line dances, some swing and we take your requests seriously - serously!

Tio Leo's famous free Chips & Salsa Free -  just for the asking!

Large dance floor!

And just a fun, easy, comfortable atmosphere for meeting!

You really do want to be there!!!

Admission is at the door $10 (only $8 before 7:30)

Dress code:  Men - no  T-shirts, sports hats, sweats, shorts, etc! Dress to impress! If you wear jeans, they must be nice ones!  You must look good to get in!

  Ladies - no need to mention a dress code - you always look good!


All Parties Feature:

- Our very popular DJ with the best dance mixes from the 70's through 80's and 90's and today - Rod Stewart, Donna Summer,  Santana, Britney, Ricky Martin, JLO, MJ, Madonna, right through today's Beyonce & Lady Gaga, Maroon5, etc!  Rock, to Romantic; Latin to Line dances, and we take your requests seriously! (seriously!)

~Up to 100 - 300 interesting single men & women!

~Ages approximately 38/40-ish to 55/58-ish, some younger, some older, but all are welcome.

~Comfortable atmosphere to meet new people! No Pressure to do anything!

~ Very Friendly Host & Hostesses!

~Ladies - please, don't hesitate to come alone, many do!

~Proper Dress -

Men:  No jeans (except at Tio Leos, they are ok), No t-shirts, sweats, flip flops or sports hats, etc. (you must look good to get in!)

Ladies: You can wear anything that you like because you always look good! :>)))

~ Admission is at the door -

Tio Leo's: $10 ($8 before 7:30)

...Remember - bring a new person & you'll both receive a gift up worth $5





~Take an easy scroll down our site & see what's interesting ~

~ The Schedule & Upcoming Special events!  (above)

~ What they are saying about the parties!

~ Have Your Birthday Party at our Party! 

~ Business Networking at  our parties!

~ About the 40+ Singles Parties!

~ Get on our mailing list!

~ The "Top Ten" list!

~ We are "WEDDING PLANNERS"!  Let us know if you met at our party and are getting married!


~ Sponsors and Friends !

I _______________________________



"Hi dave. Thank you so much for your effort to make the New Year's Eve party so nice for us!

The food and ambiance was great!

You went all out with the party favors, champagne,  give-aways and decorations.

 Just wanted to let you know I appreciate it. Have a great New Year.



"You can post this in the internet, if you chose to use it!


I am new to San Diego, and have been attending SanDiegoSinglesParties.com since November 2013.


The music is the best and the men attending usually a lot of fun!!


Everyone at the front desk is very helpful!!


Luz Marina Villarreal"



"I went to your Valentine's Day party Friday night, and I was surprised - almost shocked at

how many people were there,  and almost  an even number from both sexes! I danced all night!

Susan D.


"Came to the Doubletree for my first party, but the woman at the front desk wouldn't let me in because I was wearing jeans and a nice sweatshirt - a real nice one.  I poked my head in and saw a big crowd in the room - so I decided to go home and change!  Glad I did!  You had a lot of hot women there!  All races too - White, Asian, Black, Hispanic.  It was like the United Nations, and a wide variety of ages, which I liked also, even though I was younger than most.  Everyone socialized with everyone else!  Well worth the few bucks to get in and definitely well worth going home to change!  I'll know better next time!"



Smelly Party !

'Valentine's Party...very nice party, but there was an awful smell in the room when I first arrived..... Dave and the DJ kept telling everyone that it was just something about a burned out bulb. It was bad!  Permeated the room, and even the lobby downstairs.  I was about to leave, but after a short while it seemed to disappear.  Good thing that I remained, because I met a nice guy and at the end of the evening he took a rose off the table and gave it  me.  I'm out of town on business for a couple of weeks, but we are going  to meet there at the next party. The party  really ended smelling like a ROSE!"

Elena W.


As host of the parties,  I like to ask people how they are liking the night.  Most comments are about the music.  On this one occasion,  I asked two ladies (girlfriends) who came to the party together, how THEY liked the music.  First one didn't like it - she said  that the DJ plays too much OLD music.  The second  wasn't happy either- she said that he played too much NEW music!  ...and then they began to  laugh and "argue" about it between themselves!  ha,ha!  Funny - but absolutely true story!

It's the strangest thing... ya know - ya just can't please everyone, but I try,

So, let ME know if there is music that you'd like to hear!  :>)





If your EXACT birthday falls on the EXACT date of our party,

we would like to make you and up to 4 friends your guests at the party!

(that's complimentary admission for you and your friends)

... and you will receive a bottle of the finest vintage wine (2014), to take home!  ;))

Just call us or send an email as soon as you know that you'll be coming to the party.

Please contact us by the day before the party at the latest,

with your name and your friends' names to be put on our VIP guest list.

You and your friends will be asked to arrive during the first half hour

of the starting time of the party (and that way you can also get a table).

The birthday person's name will be the (secret) password for the FREE admission.

You will  be asked to show a driver's license (or facsimile) showing your actual birth date.

That's all!

So, on your birthday, come and have your party, at our party!

*Note; If your birthday is on Dec 31, (New Years) we will make YOUR admission complimentary,  but  we can not comp friends.



Business Networking

If you have business cards or brochures for your service, business, profession, or hobby -

you are welcome to bring them to a party and we will gladly display them

on our reception table.

(we reserve the right not to display any cards that we feel are inappropriate)





 are the parties that everyone talked about

in Boston in the 80's,

in San Diego and Ft Lauderdale in the 90's,

and now back San Diego!

As your host, I try to make the parties fun, reasonably priced,

and condusive  to meeting new people.  When you've come to a few parties,

you'll feel like you're coming to a place,

"where everyone knows your name!"

The parties are geared for single (un-married) men and women generally in their 40's & 50's,

but of course, all ages are welcome.

At the parties we usually have about 150-300 attending!

We always have one of our popular DJ's, who will try to play as many requests as possible; We take your requests seriously! (Seriously!)

Except for special parties such as New Years Eve, the admission is always cash at the door.

There are usually 3  very friendly "hostesses" at the front desk (+ Dave) who will gladly help with any questions.

Dress code for men: stylish - no jeans, t-shirts, sports hats, etc. (The women always look good :>)

 The cash bar also includes a variety of non-alcoholic beverages.

New Faces Special - if you are a paying guest and bring a new person, you'll both receive a $5 drink voucher (See the few details in the ''New Faces Special Promotion" section at the top of the page.)

So, come to the fun parties, where you're sure to meet some wonderful people!






(if link doesn't work, please just send a regular email)

We will gladly include you

on our VIP email list to receive

advance updates & special discounts!


~The Top Ten List ~

Do's & Don'ts at a party ...

Having put on over 3,000 dance parties for single adults,  I have noticed some things  that people should do and should not do if they REALLY want to have a good time and meet new people. See how many sound familiar....

1) Have a positive attitude, be sociable, smile a lot, & come to have fun with no expectations!

2) Place yourself where the action is;  closer to the dance floor, or closer to the bar area. Don't hide in corners!

3) Women - do not congregate all night with a group of other women - especially sitting. Try walking around by yourself or with one other woman. It's much less intimidating for a man to ask you to dance if he doesn't have to do it in front of your entire group. (and with the fear of possibly being rejected.)

4) "When you see an (interesting) stranger across a crowed room", be sure to flash a big smile!  A smile is probably the most inviting and welcoming gesture that you can legally make! ;>)

5) Whether or not you're having an alcoholic drink, keep a glass of something (water, juice, soda, virgin drinks) in your hand anyway - it looks more sociable...especially men -  otherwise you will be free to cross your arms or stand with hands in your pockets, both of which give off negative body language and are very uninviting positions!  Make yourself look like you are IN the party and not an OBSERVER - put something in your hands.

6a) Men - do not hesitate to ask women to dance just because you think that she might refuse. Most women will absolutely dance if asked.

6b) Women - do not hesitate to ask men to dance just because you think that he might refuse. Most men will absolutely dance if asked.

6c) Similarly, if you'd really rather not dance  with someone - just say ''no thank you".  If you say something like,  "maybe later " or "not right now" - it's guaranteed that that person will come back to you later.

7) If you came by yourself, don't hesitate to socialize with people of the same sex...you'll be surprised how many new friends you'll make, and after a while our parties almost become like "Cheers", where "everyone knows your name."

8) Don't allow yourself to get tied down to one person all night if you don't really want to. You might say something like "I've enjoyed talking with you, and I now I'm going to mingle for a while".

9) We have tons of great music so, please do make requests of the DJ or your host.

10)  Men... One of the first "Laws of attraction" is that  - the sharper you dress, the more women will be attracted to you

 Some of the above may sound corny, but only YOU can determine if you'll  meet people and have a good time, so - GO FOR IT!




You are getting Married? 


Did you meet at a 40+ Singles Party, and you are getting married?  Please contact me, because if you would like to have your wedding  ceremony,  right, smack in the middle of one of our singles party, I will provide  everything below for the big event! We will stop the party to have your wedding ceremony in front of  up to 200 of your "closest friends"!


~The Ceremonial Room or Hall

~ The music by our very popular DJ - (request your special songs)!

~ Complimentary hors d'oeuvres for the bridal party!

 ~ Flowers for the bridal party! (certain limitations) !

~ Free admission for your guests (up to 25 free)!

~and even your wedding night in a beautiful guest room at the hotel!

and possibly videod by a local tv station.

So let me know!






24 Hour recorded party schedule & info

(760)S-I-N-G-L-E-S  (760)746-4537












and collect $1,000.00 cash reward (recompnesa)!

(cash, no taxes, and Obama will never know about it! ha, ha!)



As the host of the 40+ Singles Parties, and being single myself, I don't feel

that it's appropriate for me to approach a woman at a party for a date -

after all, she is my customer.

(of course, I am open to a woman approaching me for a date!  ha, ha!)


Because of this unusual situation that I find myself in, I have developed a website for myself -


At my website, you will notice that I am actually offering

a reward of $1,000 cash, - a "finder's fee",  (recompensa, en Espanol),

for the person who introduces me to (or is directly responsible for me meeting) the woman that I marry*

So, please check out my website, MarryDave.com.,

and especially the YouTube video by the Boston Herald from about 2 years ago -


Good luck to all of us....

(and I'll just keep that cool thousand in the bank, drawing no interest at all,  until you find Ms Right for me!)


*(disclaimer - this does not apply to introducing me to a woman at a party that I host or  a woman who has been to my party)




A great local organization where you can adopt or foster a loving dog or cat. 



Boys & Girls Club of San Diego

4635 Clairemont Mesa Blvd

San Diego, Ca   92117

Donations accepted!





A great gag gift

from $19.95  + s&h!

~ for an Over-the Hill Birthday

~for a gag Anniversary gift

~ for Trick or Treat Halloween "gift"

~for April Fools' Day

for any occasion where someone beats you (at tennis, cards, or their team beat yours, etc)

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